A former carer has written a heartfelt leaflet with tips on how to support a loved one with dementia.
88-year-old Ken Swale from Loughborough was a carer for his wife Dorothy who was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia for many years, before she sadly passed away in 2022.
He became part of Leicestershire County Council’s adult social care engagement panel to help give input on dementia services that the council provides.
Since losing his wife, Ken has dedicated time to educate other carers in as many ways as possible, including his ‘Ken’s Top Tips’ leaflet - full of practical advice on caring for a loved one living with dementia.
Ken said: “When Dorothy passed away, of course I grieved, but after two weeks I woke looked up to the ceiling and said 'Thank You Dot" the way she thanked me for looking after her every day until her passing.
“Today I walk to her tree I chose - to touch a branch and say ‘thank you Dot for looking after me. This helps to put a smile on my face as my Dorothy would approve.
“The Ken’s Tips pamphlet helps those to avoid the stress of being a carer for their loved ones.”
Councillor Michael Squires, cabinet member for adult social care, said: “What Ken has done is selfless and incredible, and he is one of many who care for loved ones living with dementia every day.
“It can be a daunting time when a dementia diagnosis is made, but there is so much support available, including the dementia support service we help to fund and is delivered by Age UK and, of course, Ken’s own leaflet.”
Dementia Action Week (18–24 May) highlights the importance of early recognition, diagnosis and support for people affected by dementia. Dementia often remains undiagnosed in its early stages, but timely identification can significantly improve support available.
The Dementia Support Service, provided by Age UK Leicestershire and Rutland offers free information, support and guidance for people with memory issues and/or a diagnosis of dementia, and their carers.
For more information visit the Living with Dementia page, call 0116 223 7363 or email the Age UK dementia support team.
Ken's leaflet is available to view and download here.